Monday, January 24, 2011

Memorial Monday: For Timmy

Today was a sad day.  

Timmy, one of our cats being lovingly cared for by my ex-husband, has passed away.  


He was a sweet little trooper, and just couldn't go on anymore. 

A little neurotic, yes.  He always managed to have a look like he'd just been smacked across the face.  Permanently startled, if you will.

But he was a sweetheart.  


I moved away from my cats in 2008 and have not seen them since then.  
Talk about guilt.  :(
I decided to look for some solace.  For some books that could bring some peace to a troubled heart. 

Bringing Peace to a Troubled Heart #1:
 
Cat Heaven by Cynthia Rylant

Cat Heaven 

From Kirkus Reviews (Courtesy of Amazon.com)

Every bit as rich in eye-dimming sentiment as Dog Heaven (1995), this will kindle sighs even from the feline-indifferent. Writing in rhyme, Rylant assures readers that all cats already know the way to heaven's yellow door, and once past it will never want for laps, toys, or full kitty dishes. Rylant paints in the same extremely naive style of the first book, with large brushes and bright, opaque colors; heaven is a place with trees and clouds to perch on, fields to leap through--and a garden full of tall flowers, where God walks ``with a good black book [``Garden Tips''] and a kitty asleep on His head.'' Comforting and amiable, this is tinged with gentle humor. (Picture book. 3-6) -- Copyright ©1997, Kirkus Associates, LP. All rights reserved.

My Take: 
Okay, just this synopsis makes me weepy.  Cynthia Rylant's work is emotional to begin with without adding the death of a pet to the mix.  *sigh*


Bringing Peace to a Troubled Heart #2:
 
Paw Prints in the Stars:  A Farewell and Journal for a Beloved Pet by Warren Hanson

Paw Prints in the Stars: A Farewell and Journal for a Beloved Pet

Courtesy of Amazon.com:
Product Description
Paw Prints in the Stars was created to help one deal with the loss of a beloved pet. The book is written in the voice of the pet that has passed and brings peace and comfort while celebrating life and the lessons learned. There is a place for treasured photos and journal pages for favorite memories as well as a special ribbon to hold collar tags.

My Take: 
I think this would make me bawl.  Really bawl.  But they would be good tears...

And last but not least...


Bringing Peace to a Troubled Heart #3:

Cold Noses at the Pearly Gates by Gary Kurz
Cold Noses At The Pearly Gates 
Product Description:
Do all dogs and cats really go to heaven? Yes, they do!
The death of your beloved pet can be one of the most heartbreaking losses you'll ever endure. But recovery isn't only about closure. You also want to know where your best friend has gone.
After the intense, unexpected grief he experienced following the loss of his own companions, animal lover and biblical scholar Gary Kurz set out to prove that there are indeed pets in Paradise. After devoting countless hours of research, he now shares his inspiring insights to bring you a richer understanding of animals and their souls. You'll finally find answers to common questions about animals and the afterlife- and you'll also get a 30-day devotional to help you work through your grief.
If you-ve ever loved and lost a pet, or if you know someone who has shared a special bond with a furry face and a cold, wet nose, you'll welcome this amazing book's reassurance that love and loyalty are truly eternal, and that someday, you and your pets will be together again.


I just hope I don't have to watch any Humane Society Commercials on the TV tonight.  I don't think my heart can take it.  

Rest in Peace, Timmy.  You will always be loved.  


Timmy







 

2 comments:

  1. Thank you for writing this, Renae. He really couldn't go on anymore. He had a difficult life but he was a very sweet kitty when he chose to see people. :) Mona and Elsa remain here and will always remember their Mumma.

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  2. I'm so sorry for your loss. I went through the same thing about three years ago. I'm so glad that you have Chloe to comfort you.

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